Scandinavian Leather Men Oslo, usually shortened to SLM Oslo or just SLM, is a fetish club for anyone who identifies as male (cis men, trans men and male-presenting non-binary persons). Our events are open both to members and nonmembers, but all guests must wear an outfit in line with this dress code.
SLM Oslo is not a club for every possible fetish, but specifically for the fetishes mentioned on this page. If you aren’t dressed according to this dress code, you will be denied entry, no exceptions. Please note that perfume is not permitted.
The dress code is enforced by the event manager, and we practice a strict interpretation of the code. The event manager’s decision is final. Complaints must be made in writing to post@slmoslo.no and will be handled by the board of directors.
If you’re unsure whether your planned outfit is covered by the dress code, please send us pictures or a thorough description a few days in advance. We’re happy to help.
Rejection criteria
The following items of clothing, accessories and symbols are never allowed at SLM Oslo, and will always lead to rejection at the door. If discovered after entry, you will be asked to leave, and you won’t receive a refund.
- Any political symbol, pin, object, tattoo or similar item that represents Nazism, racism, transphobia or homophobia.
- Any political symbol, pin, object, tattoo or similar item that represents political or religious extremism.
- Phones or cameras. These must be stored at the coat check.
- Streetwear or street fashion, even when the outfit is inspired by fetishism or combined with fetish accessories.
- Formal shoes, loafers, sandals, flip-flops, high heels or any open shoes.
- Glitter, sequins etc.
- Perfume.
- Cross-dressing, feminization or women’s clothing.
Our fetishes
Leather
The foundation for the whole modern fetish scene is the classic, black leather motorcycle outfit. We accept MC gear, classic or modern, in any color. Uniforms made from leather or leather pants and jackets are also great options.
Another classic option is black leather chaps over jeans (or commando). Black leather boots will traditionally fit any leather outfit, but for more casual outfits like leather shorts or jeans, leather sneakers or trainers will also work. Harnesses, jockstraps, collars, bracelets, etc. made from leather are also within the dress code. Fashion garments made from leather will not be accepted.
Rubber
Rubber and latex clothing exist in many variations, and are especially well suited for wet activities. A rubber outfit can be anything from a heavy dry suit to a pair of shorts or tight t-shirt. Common rubber items are pants or tights, shirts, jackets, chaps and wrestling suits. Accessories like waders, rubber boots, gloves, gas masks, etc. are also welcome.
Neoprene counts as rubber at SLM Oslo. Wet and dry suits for diving and jockstraps or chaps made from neoprene are also accepted.
Rain gear is only accepted when it’s the old-fashioned “oilskin” traditionally used by fishermen, builders, etc.
Uniforms
We accept military, police, security guard and similar uniforms. The goal is to look like an authority. We accept both real uniforms and replicas. Camo-patterned fashion or streetwear is not accepted. Uniforms from “soft industries” like hospitality, health care or domestic service are not accepted.
Uniforms, accessories or symbols from Nazi, fascist or other oppressive regimes are not allowed. This includes, but is not limited to, WW2 uniforms from Germany, Italy and Japan, modern uniforms from dictatorships like North Korea, and items or symbols representing genocide, war crimes or human rights violations.
Skinhead
The main characteristic for any skinhead is very little hair on your head. Additionally we require typical skinhead attire such as polo shirts from Lonsdale or Fred Perry, checked shirts, bleachers and bomber jackets. Braces or suspenders and tall lace-up boots are self-evident elements. Symbols hinting at Nazism or fascism are not allowed.
Workwear
Workwear and hi-viz clothing from construction and mechanical industries, farming, etc, preferably well-used.
Rain gear is only accepted when it’s the old-fashioned “oilskin” traditionally used by fishermen, builders, etc.
Sports
Sports apparel from masculine sports such as football or soccer, rugby, wrestling, boxing, cycling, etc. Team kit and training kit are equally acceptable, but sporty fashion garments and “athleisure” outfits are not allowed. Fashion swimwear and all beachwear are not allowed.
BDSM
Chastity devices, ball stretchers, collars, bracelets, harnesses, ropes and other accessories that clearly show an affinity toward masculine BDSM either as a dom or sub are all accepted. Crossdressing, “sissy” and other feminization is not accepted.
Jockstraps
Classic jockstraps entered the male fetish scene early, and count as fetish wear at SLM Oslo. More modern jockstraps and athletic cups as used in rugby, ice hockey, etc. are also allowed. All other kinds of underwear, including but not limited to G-strings/thongs, open-backed briefs and “fashion jockstraps” are not allowed.
Naked
You can only go completely naked during our Sunday parties and dedicated naked parties. For other parties, you can be naked if combined with accessories from another of the fetishes mentioned above, for example BDSM.
During our naked parties, all guests must be naked but wear acceptable shoes or boots (see below). Socks are allowed, as are fetish accessories that are clearly not items of clothing.
Volunteers are not required to be naked while working at naked parties.
Puppy play
Puppies are welcome at SLM Oslo, with or without their handler. The outfit requirements for puppies are the same as for everyone else. In other words, you must be dressed according to this dress code in addition to your puppy hood. Puppy hoods are also allowed at naked parties.
The same goes for handlers: a dog leash alone is not sufficient. Naked puppies must be wearing fetish accessories as described above.
FAQ and common misunderstandings
First time at SLM Oslo?
We require you to respect the dress code every time you visit, including your first. Many of the categories above are easily attainable with items most people already own or can borrow from a friend.
Can I wear jeans?
Jeans alone are not considered part of this dress code, even if you’re topless. Jeans will be allowed on an individual basis if you’re wearing fetish accessories or your top is leather or rubber.
Certain styles of jeans are also accepted as part of certain fetish outfits, for example under chaps or as part of a skinhead outfit.
Underwear
With the exception of jockstraps and athletic cups as described above, no styles of regular or “sexy” underwear are accepted as part of this dress code.
Footwear
Bare feet or socks without shoes are not allowed for safety reasons, and sandals, flip-flops, crocs or other open shoes are also banned.
Your shoes or boots must match your outfit as well as possible. Formal shoes are never accepted, except for appropriate footwear when wearing a parade uniform.
Trainers or running shoes are allowed during naked parties and as part of a sportswear outfit.
You may be denied entry if you do not have acceptable footwear, even if the rest of your outfit follows the dress code.
Special events
A few times every year we have special events where specific rules apply. These will always be listed in the event description. Examples of special events are Mixed Party during Oslo Pride, where all genders are welcome, closed functions for volunteers or members-only events. Every now and then we also have open house events where the dress code is lifted.
But I’ve come all this way!
We have many guests from far away, and we get lots of foreign visitors. All guests must respect the dress code at all times, no matter who you are, where you live or whom you represent.
There are no exceptions for any persons, whether you’re the president of another fetish club, our hardest working volunteer, honorary member or the Prince of Wales. If your outfit isn’t covered by the dress code, you’re not coming inside.
If you’re unsure whether your planned outfit is covered by the dress code, please send us pictures or a thorough description a few days in advance.